So obviously these stories are very popular, which is why these publications continue to put them out. are still looking, waiting and idolizing the white savior.

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Why are black folks so infatuated with interracial dating? Of course, all black folks aren’t obsessed with interracial dating.

However, it seems like almost daily I come across a news post, and columns in magazines and blogs dedicated to black folks, speaking about the glory of dating outside of the black community.

They ask stupid questions like and write guidebooks about snagging a white man (including the helpful tip of how to order wine the “white” way).

And if they are not expounding on your personal choice on whom you date, than they are highlighting all the wonderful interracial couples in Hollywood.

Here is the standard disclaimer: I don’t have a problem with two folks of different races – or same gender for that matter – hooking up. How we empower our people is by teaching self-love and by erasing those mental chains that tell us that “we” are inherently bad.

Some people really do date outside of their race out of love and not some underlying motive. We heal the world by recognizing cultural differences, and yes skin tone, and by ensuring that our differences do not lead to inequality. However, if you are using love and sex as some sort of political statement, position for advancement or weapon of revenge and conquest, than you are no better, and odds are, you’re more part of the problem than you think.Okay, now that that’s out of the way; it’s the other would-be Rainbeau daters, who bother the hell out of me. There are swirling sites run by black men and women and even a forthcoming coming film, which hopes to appeal to the “Rainbeau” dater in all of us..You don’t see white therapists or white relationship experts or other white folks with alphabets behind their names and a platform, spouting the virtues of dating black men and women.Let’s face it: when it comes to reporting about “Jungle Fever,” this virus is only at epidemic proportions in the African American press.But while the topic has no doubt been beaten to death by the black media there are still no shortages of articles directed towards interracial relationships.